meet raj
“I Know What It’s Like to Feel Broken, And I’m Here to Help You Heal.”
my journey
I am Raj Holness. My story is one of deep pain, but also one of incredible hope.
As a child I faced abuse that no child should ever go through. As an adult I lived through domestic abuse, spiritual abuse, and even an attempt on my life. There were moments when I felt broken beyond repair, and times when I tried to end it all.
But I am still here. And I now know that my survival has a greater purpose.
Through faith, strength, and the courage to take one step at a time, I found freedom and began rebuilding my life. I discovered that healing is possible, that confidence can be restored, and that life after pain can be meaningful and full of hope.
Today, I share my story to remind you that no matter what you have faced, you are not alone. You are stronger than you think, and your future can be one of freedom, strength, and new beginnings.
Why I Do What I Do
Having walked the path of survival myself, I understand the unique challenges that come with abuse and trauma. For over 18 years, I have supported people experiencing or escaping domestic abuse, forced marriage, and human trafficking.
My purpose is clear: to guide those who feel stuck, broken, or powerless and help them:
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Feel safe in their mind and body again
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Rebuild confidence and self-belief
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Move forward with purpose and hope
Every person I work with is different, which is why my approach is gentle, personal, and tailored to you.
My Work and Expertise
For nearly two decades, I have been dedicated to empowering others through coaching, speaking, writing, and creating resources that bring hope and healing.
I have worn many hats: survivor, minister, public speaker, author, entrepreneur, and coach. My work is driven by a single mission: to help others rise above their past and step into their full potential.
I offer support through:
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Empower Beyond Coaching: Helping survivors of abuse and trauma reclaim their lives with personalised support
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Speaking Engagements: Inspiring audiences since 2006 at churches, conferences, workshops, and retreats
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Books & Autobiographies: Including 'Uncovering Truths' and 'The Only Arranged Marriage', which share my journey of survival and faith, along with my 'Beauty for Your Ashes' Journal to support reflection and healing
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Holness Creatives & Handmade By Yours Truly: Offering creative solutions and uplifting products to inspire, encourage, and empower
My personal experiences shape everything I do. They give me empathy and understanding that allows me to connect deeply with those I support.
Awards & Recognition
Over the years, my work has been recognised through awards and opportunities to work with respected organisations. These honours serve as reminders of the importance of raising awareness and offering hope to those who need it most.
National Entrepreneur Awards – Most Inspiring Business Person of the Year Finalist 2020
Asian Womens Award - Social & Humanitarian Finalist 2020
CITI Microentrepreneurship Award – The Social Entrepreneur of the Year Finalist 2020
Universal Peace Federation - Women of Excellence Award 2018
Forward Ladies The National Highly Commendable Inspiring Leader Award 2017
Forward Ladies The Midlands Regional Inspiring Leader Award 2017
MBCC Charitable Business Fundraiser Award 2017
Community Champion Asian Business Award 2016
West Midlands Woman of the Year 2015
West Midlands Most Inspirational Woman 2015
As Seen & Heard On
My message of hope, resilience, and faith has reached thousands through platforms and media features, including:
What People Say
Raj’s talk was powerful, raw, and unforgettable. She held the room in complete silence, then moved us to tears and hope. Her message stays with you long after the event.
TEDx
Audience member
Raj has a gift of connecting with people. Whether in a hall of hundreds or a small group, her words cut through and speak directly to you.
Anon.
When Raj speaks, you feel every word. She doesn’t just inspire; she shifts something inside you.
Conference Organiser
Raj’s voice is one we need today. She brings hope, strength, and truth in a way that empowers everyone listening.
Event Host
Let’s Take the First Step
You don’t have to face this alone.
Whether you want to heal, rebuild your confidence, or discover your purpose,
I would be honoured to walk alongside you.
Choose the path that best fits your needs:
